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Wedding cost guide · Updated October 2026

Wedding Loans: Borrow Small, Plan Smart

The average wedding cost $34,200 last year. Most couples won’t borrow that, but a $200–$5,000 loan can bridge a deposit or a gap in savings. Here is how to keep it small and what it really costs.

Updated Fact-checked against primary sources By the Riverstone Editorial Team

Example: $3,000 over 24 months

$152.67/mo

At 19.99% APR, fixed rate

Total interest$664.15
Avg. cost per guest$292
Average wedding cost$34,200Couples married in 2025 · The Knot
Average guest count117The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study
Average cost per guest$292The Knot 2026 Real Weddings Study
Avg. card APR22.36%Accounts charged interest · Fed G.19

What weddings cost in 2026

The Knot’s 2026 Real Weddings Study, which surveyed couples married in 2025, found an average total cost of $34,200, with an average of 117 guests. That works out to about $292 per guest (The Knot).

$34,200

average total wedding cost for couples married in 2025

The Knot, 2026
117

average number of guests

The Knot, 2026
$292

average cost per guest

The Knot, 2026

Averages are pulled up by large, expensive weddings, so many couples spend far less. The most useful number is your own: what you can pay without starting your marriage with debt you’ll resent.

Should you borrow for a wedding?

A personal loan for a wedding is legal and common, but it pays for a single day with money you’ll repay for months or years. A small loan can make sense in a few situations:

  • A venue or vendor deposit is due before your savings catch up, and you’ll have the cash within a few months.
  • You’re replacing a higher-rate credit card balance you already ran up for wedding costs.
  • The monthly payment fits comfortably into your combined budget after the wedding.

Before you apply, write down the exact amount you need, the date it’s due and the date you expect to have the cash. If the gap closes within a few months, a short loan or careful use of a card may be enough.

It’s usually a bad fit if you’d need to borrow most of the cost, if the payment would stop you saving for an emergency fund, or if you’re already carrying other high-interest debt.

Don’t borrow for the whole wedding. Financing $5,000 at 24.99% over 36 months costs $2,155.82 in interest, nearly half of what you borrowed. Keep the loan to a gap you can repay quickly.

Plan the budget before you borrow

The guest list is the biggest lever. At The Knot’s average of $292 per guest, inviting 10 fewer people could trim roughly $2,920 from a typical budget, though your per-guest cost depends on your venue and catering. Other common ways to spend less:

  • Choose an off-peak month or a Friday or Sunday date, when venues may charge less.
  • Hold the ceremony and reception at the same location to save on travel and rentals.
  • Ask what deposits are refundable, and when final payments are due.
  • Decide what matters most to you both, and spend less on the rest.
  • Track every quote and payment in one shared spreadsheet.

Talk about contributions early. If family members plan to help, agree on amounts and timing before you sign contracts, so you know the real gap you need to cover.

Ways to pay for a wedding, compared

OptionTypical costGood forWatch out for
Savings planNo interestMost couples with time before the dateNeeds a realistic monthly target
Smaller budget or guest listSaves moneyEveryoneAgreeing on priorities
Family contributionsFreeWhen offeredExpectations attached to gifts
Personal installment loan11.90% bank avg (Fed G.19); higher with fair creditA planned gap repaid in 1–3 yearsOrigination fees; payments after the wedding
Credit card22.36% avg on balances charged interest (Fed G.19)Small amounts paid off quickly, or a 0% intro offerHigh rate once a promo ends

Payment examples

Fixed-rate loans with no origination fee and on-time payments. Try your own numbers in the loan payment calculator.

Amount · termAPRMonthly paymentTotal interest
$2,000 · 12 mo19.99%$185.26$223.11
$3,000 · 24 mo19.99%$152.67$664.15
$5,000 · 24 mo19.99%$254.45$1,106.91
$5,000 · 36 mo15.54%$174.65$1,287.46
$5,000 · 36 mo24.99%$198.77$2,155.82

A smaller loan over a shorter term keeps the cost down: borrowing $2,000 for a year costs about $223 in interest, while $5,000 over three years at a higher rate costs nearly ten times as much. The 15.54% rate is LendingTree’s average best offer for borrowers with scores of 740–799 (LendingTree).

Wedding loan vs. credit card

Put $5,000 on a card charging the average 22.36% APR and pay $174.65 a month, the same payment as a 15.54% loan over 36 months. The card takes 42 months to pay off and costs $2,089.62 in interest, about $802 more than the loan.

Pay only $150 a month on that card and it takes 53 months, more than four years, and costs $2,821.23 in interest. A card with a 0% intro APR can beat both, but only if you pay the balance off before the promo ends.

How to compare wedding loan offers

Lenders often market “wedding loans,” but they are ordinary unsecured personal loans. Compare them the same way you would any other installment loan:

  • Compare APR, not just the interest rate. APR includes the origination fee, so it shows the fuller cost.
  • Check whether the fee is taken out of the loan amount. If it is, you may need to borrow a little more to receive the amount you need for a deposit.
  • Confirm there’s no prepayment penalty, so you can pay the loan off early with cash gifts.
  • Prequalify where you can. Many lenders show estimated rates with a soft credit check that doesn’t affect your score.
  • Ask how fast the money arrives, and line it up with your vendor deadlines.

Plan to use gifts wisely. If you expect cash gifts, decide in advance to put part of them toward the loan. Paying it off early cuts the interest you’ll pay.

Could you save instead?

If your date is more than a year away, saving the payment instead of borrowing it often works. Saving the same $254.45 a month you’d pay on a $5,000, 24-month loan at 19.99% would build $5,000 in about 20 months, and you’d keep the $1,106.91 you would have paid in interest.

12+ months out
  • Set your budget and guest list
  • Open a separate savings account
  • Automate a monthly transfer
6–12 months out
  • Book the venue and key vendors
  • Pay deposits from savings where you can
  • Check rates only if a gap is appearing
Final months
  • Make final payments
  • Borrow only the remaining gap, if any
  • Plan the payoff before the honeymoon

Step by step: paying for a wedding with less debt

  1. Set a total budget firstAgree on a number with your partner and anyone else contributing.
  2. Price your guest listGuest count drives many costs, so finalize it early.
  3. Build a savings planWork out how much you can save each month until the date.
  4. Borrow only the gapIf a deposit is due before savings catch up, borrow the smallest amount you need.
  5. Compare offers by APRChoose the shortest term with a payment that fits your budget after the wedding.

Pros and cons of a wedding loan

Pros

  • Covers deposits that come due before savings catch up
  • Fixed payment and a clear payoff date
  • Often cheaper than carrying a credit card balance
  • No collateral required

Cons

  • You pay interest on a one-day event
  • Monthly payments continue after the wedding
  • Origination fees can raise the APR
  • Borrowing jointly makes both partners responsible

Wedding loan FAQ

Can I use a personal loan to pay for a wedding?

Yes. Personal loans can be used for wedding costs such as the venue deposit, attire, rings or travel. You receive a lump sum and repay it in fixed monthly payments, usually over one to five years.

How much does the average wedding cost?

The Knot’s 2026 Real Weddings Study, which surveyed couples married in 2025, put the average wedding cost at $34,200 for an average of 117 guests, or about $292 per guest.

Is it a good idea to borrow for a wedding?

It can work for a small, planned gap, such as a deposit that’s due before your savings catch up, if the payment fits your budget after the wedding. Borrowing a large share of the cost means starting married life with debt, so saving or trimming the budget is usually the cheaper choice.

Is a wedding loan better than a credit card?

For a balance you’ll repay over two or three years, a lower-rate personal loan often costs less. In our example, $5,000 at 15.54% over 36 months costs $174.65 a month. Paying that same amount on a 22.36% card takes 42 months and $2,089.62 in interest, about $800 more. A card can be cheaper for small amounts you’ll pay off within a few months.

How much should I borrow for a wedding?

Borrow only the gap between your budget and what you’ll have saved by the time payments are due, not the whole cost. Make sure the monthly payment fits your combined budget after the wedding.

Does a wedding loan affect both partners’ credit?

Only the people who sign for the loan are responsible for it, and it appears on their credit reports. If you apply jointly, both partners are equally responsible for repaying the full balance.

Sources
  1. The Knot, Average wedding cost (2026 Real Weddings Study)
  2. Federal Reserve, G.19 Consumer Credit
  3. LendingTree, personal loan marketplace data

Payment examples, the savings example and the credit card comparisons are calculated by Riverstone for fixed-rate, fully amortizing loans with on-time payments and no fees. They are illustrations, not offers.

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